First, do no harm.
Quick! Where’s that from?
Hippocratic Oath? That’s what I thought.
Nope. After doing a little online reading, I found it’s not in the original Greek version. There’s a phrase in the Latin that might come close. It is believed the phrase came into acceptance somewhere in the 17th century.
Why does this matter? What drove me to even look?
I’m glad you asked.
Yesterday, on my drive to visit some folks who are completing a drug rehab program, I had a heart to heart with God.
At first I was trying to anticipate conversations and how I would respond. Okay, I confess I think these kinds of thing through for all kinds of encounters. I’m an old Girl Scout: I tried to always be prepared.
But the rehearsals in my mind were going nowhere.
So I stopped—talking not driving.
And I confessed how foolish I felt and I asked God what I needed to do.
Yes, I’m a trained pastor (two different Masters degrees for that) and a trained counselor (Masters degree and all kinds of continuing education), but we’re facing a giant of an enemy in this heroin epidemic.
This must be how David felt when he faced Goliath. (Okay, go ahead think current Pepsi commercials. See video below if you’re unfamiliar.)
God, I don’t know what to say. I want to offer your kind of lasting, life-changing, life-giving help. How do I do that?
I know, not a very eloquent prayer—didn’t even say Amen at the end.
But God heard. And God spoke: Do No Harm.
This is a huge request for an ESFP with ADD. I am not like my introverted friends who think and then overthink and maybe think some more before they open their mouths to speak. I think out loud. Words tumble out of my mouth faster than I can check them.
How do I do that?
Here’s what I did:
I listened. A challenging thing for an ESFP with ADD.
Listening requires intentional focus. Trust me: this requires more energy than a 30 minute workout at CURVES.
But I did it.
And I shared what I knew to be true.
This included some of my own struggle, but also a couple of my foundation scripture promises and fundamental counseling truths.
I’m not sure if we slayed the giant…but we did some serious damage. I left those appointments whoopin’ and hollerin’ for Jesus.
These were divine appointments and I was just along for the ride.
Check back for the next post where I’ll share one of those fundamental counseling truths. (How’s that for a teaser?!)
**ESFP is a Myers-Brigs Trait Inventory designation (MBTI). When I take the inventory I identify as an Extrovert who takes in my surroundings through my Senses, makes judgments through my Feelings, and organizes Perceptively (which is kind of like no organization at all—think scattered).
If you want to check out the test just google it. You can take it online and receive your information.
**ADD is a psychiatric identification, Attention Deficit Disorder. My brain typically runs in scatter mode. I act before thinking. I get overwhelmed by too many instructions. I am highly distracted…squirrel!